I am often asked for assistance with love spells, and I know many Pagans shy away from performing them as though they are bad news, well I have to disagree at least to some extent. Sure manipulative love spells can go seriously wrong if not performed with care, understanding and experience.
However I see nothing wrong with using a non-manipulative love spell and I developed this particular love spell over 7 years ago, when very alone and constantly meeting the wrong sort of man - I was about ready to give up on love.
Then one night I had a dream of the Goddess taking me by the hand, lifting me into the sky, pointing down at a particular man and telling me "that is your true mate, now it is up to you to bring him to you".
When I woke up I set out to write a spell to bring my true love to me (it is important to note I couldn't remember anything of the man She had shown me, but I remembered what She had said), within weeks of casting this spell I did meet a couple of guys online. However, I recieved many signs to pursue one particular guy (such as a rating that stated 'give love a chance', many references to things I had determined were the perfect attributes etc).
We chatted for a few weeks online, then finally arranged to meet for coffee. That first meeting we spent so long talking, we got kicked out of the coffee shop so they could close up.
Now it wasnt all smooth sailing, and we had a few glitches along the way, as do all relationships, but the connection we felt to each other was amazing. As our relationship progressed, we found out our paths had crossed so many times in the past it wasn't funny - but somehow and for different reasons we missed each other (I believe this was simply because the timing wasn't right).
Time has past and 5 years on we were joined in a combined marriage/handfasting ceremony, that was just over two years ago. For those of you who follow my blog you will know that those two years have been some of the most difficult ones a relationship could go through, but we are stronger than ever,and neither of us could imagine life without the other.
So as you can see, I can not in all honesty, deny the validity of love spells, and due to many requests, I have chosen to post an adaption of the love spell I used to bring my darling husband to me.
Please feel free to use this, however as with all spells you should make adaptions to it to make it that more personal and connected to you. You can choose tocall upon a different Deity and adjust herbs, oils etc to suit. You may wish to add extra sections to the spell (or to remove others). Whatever you choose to do, remember to research it well, don't perform any part of the spell if you are unsure what it means or why it is being done and make sure you are comfortable with what you are going to do.
Note: I suggest reading my 'disclaimer page' before attempting any spell working, as it explains the most common reasons why a spell doesn't work and what you might do to forestall that from happening.
Please ensure your are not allergic to any of the following ingredients by testing the oils 1 drop at a time on the inside of your wrist, cover and leave for 24 hours. If you have a reaction DO NOT use.
The same may be done with other ingredients by rubbing on the skin of the wrist.
It is VITALLY important that if you have not used any of these products on your skin previously, that you test before using to ensure your own safety!
If you do have an allergic reaction please seek immediate medical assistance!!!
As a responsible practitioner, you should be ensuring your own safety with EVERY spell you perform and this should include prior testing of any and all materials you are using.Therefore The Magickal Universe and Lady Rohanna take no responsibility for anyone using any products included in any spell, potion, charm or any other information provided within this website.
Once you have repeated this call re-wrap the list of attributes and tie off with the ribbon - this time with three knots, saying the following as you tie the knots
Place the Charm about your neck if it is to be worn, or in a pink or red pouch if it is to be carried, and do not take it off or stop carrying it until such time as your beloved is found. (Once you have found your beloved, bury the charm with an offering under a rose bush and give thanks to Aphrodite). The charm can be recharged as often as needed by annointing it with some of Aphrodite's Annointing Oil.
Aphrodite rules all aspects of love, desire, sex and beauty. She is the Queen of laughter and the mistress of pleasure. This Goddess radiates the energy to give love and to receive love.
Aphrodite is erotic, beautiful, uninhibited, desirous, desirable, and love itself. She is the goddess who symbolizes sex, passion, love and nudity without shame; Creative work is also fueled by the intense passions of Aphrodite, passion in all aspects - art, music, dance, and celebration.
Possibly the most valuable gift that Aphrodite bestows is the ability to attract, to connect and to enter into a relationship. Once Aphrodite influences a relationship, her powers goes beyond the romantic and sexual love to include deep friendship, understanding, rapport and the connection of souls...
According to myth, she sprang up from the sea, fully formed, upon a giant seashell. Aphrodite, who was free to choose her lover, did so and gave birth to Eros, the God of love.
The Aphrodite archetype also governs a woman's enjoyment of love, beauty, sexuality, and sensuality.
Note: If you don't like or can't use bath salts you may wish to use Aphrodite's bath Milk Instead:
Prior to ritual, heat the milk in a saucepan (taking care not to boil it) and mix the essential oils into the warm milk. To use: Pour the milk and oil mixture into the bath just before entering.